Leah Remini Clears the Air on Her Friendship with Jennifer Lopez

For years, Leah Remini and Jennifer Lopez were known for their tight-knit bond. From red carpet appearances to vacations, the two celebrities were frequently seen side by side, often referred to as “inseparable” by fans and media alike. But in recent years, that close friendship appeared to have cooled off, prompting rumors of a falling out—especially after Remini was notably absent from Lopez’s high-profile wedding to actor Ben Affleck in 2022.

In a candid conversation with Us Weekly, Remini finally addressed the speculation and shared her current perspective on her friendship with the global superstar. Her message was clear: while their connection may have changed, there’s no bad blood between them.

Friendship Has Changed, Not Ended

“Right after the divorce, we’d text each other loving messages of support,” Remini revealed, referring to her recent separation from husband Angelo Pagán, which she filed for in August 2024. Interestingly, that same month, Lopez also filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, creating further public intrigue around both women’s personal lives.

Remini, known for her outspoken nature and unfiltered honesty, explained that the evolution of their friendship doesn’t stem from any drama or fallout. “Sometimes you don’t talk to people every day like you used to, but that doesn’t mean the love is lost,” she said. “Friendships ebb and flow.”

She went on to clarify that just because she’s no longer in constant contact with Lopez doesn’t mean there’s any animosity. “That doesn’t mean we’re at odds,” she added. “It just means life changes, and people evolve in different ways.”

Personal Growth and Shifting Priorities

The actress and former King of Queens star also spoke about the broader changes in her life that have influenced her relationships. Since leaving the Church of Scientology over a decade ago—a move that made headlines and marked a major shift in her personal and professional world—Remini said she’s become more introspective and selective with her energy.

“I’m in a different place now,” she admitted. “After leaving Scientology, I needed space to reflect and retreat. I’ve learned to spend more time at home and focus on myself and my family. That naturally affects how often I see or speak to people.”

While Remini didn’t explicitly confirm whether she and Lopez are still in touch today, she emphasized that distance doesn’t erase the importance of a meaningful relationship. “I cherish my friendships, and not everybody is meant to remain in your life in the exact same way they once were,” she said. “When you grow out of the person you used to be, it doesn’t mean you’re against the people who were part of that chapter.”

Her comments reflect a mature and nuanced view of how relationships shift over time—not just due to circumstance, but as a natural part of personal growth. “I have many friends I don’t talk to every day, but I still love them,” she said. “It’s just that I’m in one place, and they’re in another. That’s life.”

Remini’s thoughtful response has been applauded by fans who appreciate her openness and authenticity. Rather than fueling gossip, she chose to offer a grounded and respectful explanation that underlines the complexities of long-term friendships, especially under the scrutiny of the public eye.

In the world of celebrity where fallouts and feuds often make headlines, Remini’s message is a refreshing reminder: not every friendship shift is rooted in conflict. Sometimes, it’s just the natural course of life.